Dave Menter: Determined to find the right fit, not just a job

The day after: I awoke this morning (didn't really sleep) thinking about what just happened; I was unexpectedly laid off at noon on Friday, November 7th. Wow. But first maybe I should back up and explain that where I woke up was not really at home, but rather at the house where we are temporarily staying. You see, on October 14th we began a complete remodel of our home in Shakopee. Yes, we gutted the place and had to move out and find a place to live for approximately four months. What timing.

Once I had my cup of coffee and got my wits about me I began to think about what my next steps would be. My wife and I spent the previous evening talking about the situation and we both beleive things happen for a reason but I needed to figure out what the reason is.

I spent much of the day talking with family members and friends, letting them know what happened and giving them new contact information. I also sent out a mass e-mail to the same people giving them our personal account -- no more company e-mail to use!

I also spent a lot of time reviewing the separation letter, which I guess is the modern day version of "pink slip." That evening my wife and I watched mindless sitcoms until the wee hours of the morning.

Now: I began my search for a new career in earnest Jan. 1. I have been extremely busy with our home remodel and have had to spend at least 20-25 hours a week at the house answering questions and working with our contractor.

Layoff or no, life goes on.

I did receive a severance package that has allowed me time to figure out what I really want to do and not have to rush into taking just any job. As part of that, I got six months of career counseling, and starting the first week of December I have been attending weekly group and personal sessions. The counseling has been excellent; it is not just about writing a resume and getting an interview but is also about figuring out the type of company I want to work with and learning the best approach, based on the current economy, to finding another job.

I had a couple of interviews in late November but have spent much of my time talking with my friends and their friends about any opportunities that may be out there. I have also been trying to stay current on what is going on in franchising (the industry segment where I have the most interest and experience.)

I have also been talking with anyone and everyone that will listen about what happened and to see if they are aware of any job opportunities. December was a good time to see and meet people but really not a great month for interviewing or for companies hiring.