In the end, Kaitlin and Justin’s wedding day was everything they wanted and nothing like they’d planned.
They’d planned to marry at a lovely, airy barn in Isanti. That venue, the Circle B, went belly-up in April without warning, without explanation and without a refund of the nearly $10,000 deposit they’d put down for their Sept. 14 wedding.
Kaitlin Gulstad and Justin Lynch, and every other couple who’d planned dream weddings around the Circle B, scrambled to make new plans — often with less money and little time. Their weddings were days, weeks, months away. Wedding guests had booked plane tickets. Vendors, caterers, photographers and florists had been paid to come to a venue that no longer existed.
The Circle B and its owners, Wayne and Angi Butt, had let them down. By the start of the June wedding season, the Historic John P. Furber Farm in Cottage Grove, another wedding venue operated by the Butts, spiraled into Chapter 11 bankruptcy.
Family, friends and Minnesota’s wedding industrial complex rushed in to help. The other vendors returned their deposits, even the nonrefundable deposits. Complete strangers reached out and offered their own backyards as last-minute wedding settings. Venues across the state scrambled to find spaces that matched the upcoming wedding dates. Brides and grooms adjusted, adapted, hustled and held on to their senses of humor. One by one, came the wedding days.
On Sept. 14, Kaitlin married Justin in his parents’ Coon Rapids backyard overlooking the Mississippi River, the same spot where his parents exchanged their own vows. At their side were family, friends, a pair of well-dressed alpacas and vendors who moved heaven, earth and calendars to make the ceremony and reception possible on short notice. The alpacas, wearing wee wedding outfits, paced down the aisle with the wedding party and went on to absolutely dominate the photo booth at the reception afterward.
Nothing had gone to plan, and nothing could have been lovelier.
“I think it was maybe meant to be this way,” said the newly married Kaitlin Lynch. They signed their marriage certificate at the same fireplace where his parents, his aunt and his sister all signed theirs. Another chapter in the family history. “Now when we have kids, we’ll be able to show them, ‘Mom and Dad got married right there. They got married at grandma and grandpa’s house.’ ”