Each Thursday night, Vikings players and coaches gather somewhere in the Twin Cities for an event they call “Fellowship Thursdays.” Kevin O’Connell is only an occasional participant in the get-together, and even when he joins, he’s not the master of ceremony.
These nights are defensive coordinator Brian Flores’ show, his chance to let players see the “everyday Flo”: the middle brother from an inseparable Brooklyn family who’s now a suburban dad coaching his kids’ football and basketball teams. They know the “do-what-it takes Flo” too: the pugnacious, undersized linebacker who coached under Bill Belichick and forged one of the NFL’s best defenses out of chaos and competitiveness that first frustrated the Vikings offense in practices before it was unleashed on the league. It’s the persona that most associate with Flores; the Vikings get the chance, particularly on Thursdays, to see more.
“If it was my first week, and ‘Flo’ is talking about, ‘Why aren’t you guys celebrating?’ I’d be like, ‘This is Brian Flores?’” said safety Camryn Bynum, the choreographer of the viral dances Vikings defenders used after many of their league-leading 33 takeaways this year. “But since I’ve known him since [2023], and realized he’s not the military type of coach the picture may paint him to be, I’m not surprised.”
Flores foots the bill for the gatherings of 18-20 players, usually at a local restaurant. Some events — like the suite he booked at the Wild-Oilers game on Dec. 12 or the training camp gathering at his Eden Prairie house, where players met his wife, Jennifer, and played basketball with his kids — draw a bigger crowd. There’s an open invite to all players, coaches and staffers, but defenders comprise the core group. O’Connell, with an expansive job and four kids of his own, said he “took part a few times when I could.” He often gives the group space, mindful of the unique bond that’s formed around the defense with Flores at the center.
“It kind of became part of the DNA of that group, truly being a unit that operates as one within our team,” O’Connell said. “And it’s not always just scheme. It’s how we want to play, and that last element of being totally connected. I’ve seen it come to life in front of 70,000 people.”
It’s a generator for one of the 2024 season’s surprise stories, thanks to a defense that became one of the NFL’s hardest to solve, turned three mid-tier free agents into first-time Pro Bowl selections and emerged as a worthy complement to a star-powered offense. Flores, hired before the 2023 season, formed a kind of dyad with O’Connell through their shared aggressiveness, frank discussions and influence on one another’s coaching style.
Flores, O’Connell said, helped the third-year head coach find an authentic voice, allowing the “firmer parts” of his personality to emerge in front of the team (in contrast to his nice-guy reputation) while observing how Flores relates to players.
“He can be demanding of the guys, but also constantly builds them up,” O’Connell said. “It’s kind of how our whole culture is built. There’s nothing about it that’s soft. There’s nothing about it that’s going to look the other way when things need to be corrected. I know our defense is being coached at a standard I have incredible comfort with.”