We moved lethargically in the dark, our teenage brains still murky from lack of sleep. We dressed without talking and loaded the rumbling Greyhound for the ride from our modest motel to our gathering spot in magical Pasadena, Calif.
We were just kids from New Mexico who had successfully raised the princely sum of $20,000 to bring our entire high school marching band to the elite Rose Parade on New Year's Day.
So many years ago, and yet I still remember placing chilled fingers on my alto saxophone as dawn broke. I remember the sight and smell of a million fragrant flowers. I remember praying that I didn't play a wrong note, or turn left when every other black-hatted, white-spatted kid turned right.
And I remember how my parents laughed for years at our near fame. The national TV cameras (from all three stations!) turned our way, announced our small-town band's approach — then broke suddenly for an orange juice commercial that ended after we had long passed by.
Didn't matter. I loved marching in that parade. I loved the applause, a rarity for a kid who didn't play sports.
I've loved parades since, happy to shift from participant to spectator. The silliness and sweetness and simplicity of them. The communal nature. The fact that for an hour or two, if you tried, you could shut out the noise of a complicated world.
And nobody needs a good parade more than occupants of the uber-complicated world we inhabit now.
But I'm not telling you anything you don't already know.