Perhaps it's time to forgive Jay Leno.
That won't be a problem for the legion of fans who never had an issue with him in the first place. Three years after being replaced on "The Tonight Show," he continues to be one of comedy's biggest draws, booking more than 200 gigs a year, including a stop in Minneapolis on May 13 to headline the PACER Center's annual benefit.
But for those of us who grew up idolizing David Letterman, it's tricky. We can't stop picturing Leno without a black hat. The theory that he "stole" the show from his former friend has been thoroughly debunked, most recently in Jason Zinoman's book "Letterman: The Last Giant of Late Night," which effectively argues that Letterman's real enemy was his own abrasive relationship with NBC brass and impossible demands by his agent.
Then there's the fact that Leno temporarily returned to his late-night perch after ratings for Conan O'Brien's "Tonight Show" and Leno's own prime-time series had tanked. Some saw it as merely business; others saw it as the worst case of backstabbing since Brutus turned on Caesar.
Leno has always taken the higher road, at least publicly. He's consistently said nice things about his "enemies," even Jimmy Kimmel, who turned eviscerating his late-night peer into a part-time hobby.
"I think he's a genuinely funny guy," Leno said of Kimmel during a recent phone interview. "I thought he did a great job at the Academy Awards. I always thought we'd have a great relationship because we both come from the same blue-collar background. But it was one of those situations where people saw kindness as a weakness. I kind of got played on that one."
On the subject of Letterman, he continues to be diplomatic.
"I always thought we were the flip side of each other," he said. "I was a stand-up lucky enough to get a TV show and Dave was a broadcaster who was fortunate enough to do stand-up."