Huntington's disease took its toll on Wade Wallen over the course of more than 12 years, leaving the former Bloomington Jefferson High School hockey star unable to walk, talk, think or eat normally.
Still, family members, friends and caregivers say he never complained. His motto was to keep moving and experience all that life had to offer.
"To him, any day was a good day to live and there was so much to fight for," said Brianna Wallen, his daughter and primary caregiver.
The 57-year-old sports buff and former youth hockey coach known to many as "Wade-O" played collegiate hockey at Mankato State and tried out unsuccessfully for the "Miracle on Ice" U.S. Olympic hockey team of 1980. His single-season school scoring record at Jefferson in the mid-1970s stood until the mid-1990s, when it was broken by Mark Parrish, who went on to play in the NHL, said Michael Wallen, Wade's son.
"He lived for sports and athletics," Michael Wallen said. "He was a tough coach. He wasn't afraid to yell. But his heart was always in the right place."
Friends organized Wade's Golf Classic for 11 straight years, which helped support Wallen's family and the larger community of people who suffer from the genetic, degenerative brain disorder.
Dr. Martha Nance, director of the Huntington's Disease Center of Excellence at Hennepin County Medical Center, said Wallen's story is remarkable in a couple of ways, including his willingness to help others who live with the disease. In 2007, Wallen won the Huntington's Disease Society of America's Minnesota Leadership Award.
Also compelling was the way in which Wallen's high school hockey buddies showed up for him 30 years after their playing days were over, said Nance, Wallen's doctor. They took turns helping him out in various ways and kept the golf tournament running strong, she said. Even though there was "great sadness underneath," no one wallowed in it, and Wallen invited them to ride along with him.