A small boy auditioned with his classmates for a school play. His mother knew his heart was set on being in the play — just like all the other children hoped — and she feared how he would react if he was not chosen.
On the day the parts were awarded, the little boy's mother went to the school gates to collect her son. The boy rushed up to her, eyes shining with pride and excitement.
"Guess what, Mom?" he shouted, and then said some words that provide a lesson to us all: "I've been chosen to clap and cheer."
Not everyone gets to play the part they want, but a positive attitude like this little goes a long way.
I am an eternal optimist. I firmly believe that there is hardly anything we can't do if we set our minds to it.
But it also helps to be realistic: I know I am never going to pitch in the World Series, but I can be a player/manager of a top-notch company.
The mind can convince competent people that they are incompetent, or conversely that merely adequate performers are highly talented. Unfortunately, self-doubt and negative attitudes seem to have a more powerful influence on the mind than positive attitudes.
Fight it. I have never met a successful pessimist. Here are some ideas on how.