You're wrong, Kirsten Gillibrand. We do need to make distinctions. Making sound distinctions is the backbone of reason, and if ever we needed reason, we need it now as we navigate an important evolution in social-sexual awareness and responsibility. If we permit this moment of opportunity for new safety and fairness for women to flip into undiscerning judgment of men and their behaviors toward women, into accepting all accusations as equal, without examination, we will miss the opportunity. I am not discounting the courage and integrity of women who have come forward to report violations that have marked them when I advocate that in this moment when the dam of discount has broken, we should exercise some circumspection.
Women have suffered terribly, from physical and emotional violation at various levels, from being in untenable positions of choosing between livelihood and physical/emotional safety, and, most of all, perhaps, from lacking the power of credibility. We have finally broken through that. Hallelujah.
I hope that we are in early stages of forming a new social norm, in which sex is not appropriated as a perk by persons in power, in which women (and men, when that's the case) are safe to report violations without risking careers, in which their reports are taken seriously and responsibly investigated, with appropriate consequences to perpetrators, rather than to those who report. Even more deeply, I hope that we will examine our perceptions of and practices around the human dimension of sexuality. We have made bad jokes about and monetized something essential to our very being; maybe we should look at that.
The term"investigation" is important here. And this is where I differ with Gillibrand, the junior U.S. senator from New York. As we hold perpetrators to account, we need to consider what is due diligence before assigning consequences. I understand that women have suffered without recourse, but unexamined acceptance of accusations now isn't the answer to establishing safety for women. "Zero tolerance" is a mindless concept, and not helpful. We need to give ourselves space for reason and, yes, for making distinctions.
Mae Seely Sylvester, St. Paul
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Gillibrand is the 21st-century McCarthy!
William Hoots III, Inver Grove Heights
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Gillibrand started the cascade, and eventually 31 other Democratic U.S. senators called for U.S. Sen. Al Franken to resign his seat due to allegations of sexual harassment. Among those piling on to dump Al was U.S. Sen. Claire McCaskill of Missouri.