At a time of unprecedented public bullying by a presidential nominee, there is a covert movement underway in private, unpublicized, civility. I work in downtown Minneapolis and here is what I have recently experienced:
As two white women and a black man wait, an elevator door opens. The man stands back while the women enter. As I hold the door for the man to enter, he thanks me and I thank him in turn; he states that he believes women should go first, and we engage in a brief discussion of manners before he exits the elevator and wishes me a good day.
Two white couples approach the doors to exit a ramp onto the street as a young black man, wearing hip-riding jeans, a T-shirt and a cap, moves to enter from the street. The young black man holds the door for the two couples, and one of the white men thanks him.
I see a Somali woman ahead of me in line at Starbucks. She wears a beautiful floor-length dress and headscarf. I comment on her beautiful dress; her eyes light up and a broad smile spreads across her face as she thanks me.
Walking through the skyway, I pass a police officer who nods and says good morning.
Below the surface of the daily news of insults, divisiveness and horrors, which undoubtedly exist, there is an awareness at a private level that each of us can contribute to the civil discourse and harmony we desire. I hope that it's this movement that continues to build momentum and turns out to vote in November.
Barbara Lubinski, Eden Prairie
CANDIDATE DISCLOSURE
So much clamor to see those tax returns; I just don't get it
I have never understood the obsession people seem to have to get a look at the income tax filings of political candidates. I do not care one bit about what is in the returns of either the Clintons or Donald Trump. Plus, I can probably tell you what is in them. Both the Clintons and Trump make a lot more money than you or me. And, just like I do and I'll bet you do, they try to do whatever they legally can to minimize the amount of taxes they pay. How dare they! If you don't, if you are someone who gets up every day and goes to work thinking: "Yippee, I get to shell out a significant amount of my money to the government," get yourself into therapy.
The people who insist that these be released for public voyeurism would be appalled if they were expected to do the same thing if applying for a job.