NIENSTEDT AND GAYS
A steadfast tenet
As observed from the responses and attitudes toward Archbishop John Nienstedt and the Catholic Church's teachings on homosexuality, the archbishop will never "win" by the world's standards, even when speaking out of compassion. It is clear, however, that he is not seeking our approval.
There are some things (namely, the truth) that cannot be changed, no matter how much dialogue ensues. To satisfy his critics, Nienstedt would need to refute church teaching, which is the teaching of Christ himself. His Nov. 30 letter to the Star Tribune, which stated, "As a priest and bishop, I have the responsibility before God and in the name of Jesus Christ to call all men and women to conversion ...," shows us what much of the world does not understand: Catholic or non-Catholic, our accountability is not to those who critique us or despise what we stand for. Our accountability is to God, and in the end we will be judged by him accordingly, not by the Nick Colemans of the world.
JULIE HOGAN, NEW BRIGHTON
What compassion? It would be much easier to have patience with the Catholic Church's official stance on homosexuality if one were to see evidence of its caring and acceptance.
We know that about 10 percent of our children are not heterosexual. Where is the church when it's time to teach them how to handle the challenges of that compassionate "call to celibacy"? If adult seminarians, who choose celibacy, are supported in that difficult decision, why doesn't the church provide support for our children who enter puberty and find out they're not heterosexual?
It's pretty hard to believe in caring and acceptance when the real message is "Don't tell! Hide or leave!" Quoting St. Paul is easy; taking real action to help real human beings is much tougher.
Furthermore, it's time to stop saying "lifestyle." If we mean "promiscuity," let's say that. I think we could achieve general agreement that promiscuity harms people. Sincere, adult, committed relationships strengthen people, regardless of the sexual identities God gave them.
MARY HUDSON, NEW HOPE