At Christmas dinners, Peter Ramsey forced family members to watch videos he'd recorded at the Schwan's USA Cup in Blaine, thousands of miles away from his native England.
Ramsey worked as an English teacher at the high school and community college levels, but the USA Cup was his greatest passion.
He talked incessantly to his cousin, Brenda Harrison, about friends he'd made at the annual youth soccer tournament. Harrison knew she'd never meet most of them, but she watched the videos, anyway.
"I knew how important it was to him," Harrison said. "I don't think I realized until recently how many lives he touched."
Two months before the tournament's 33rd rendition, the 65-year-old Ramsey was killed in a car accident in his hometown of Sunderland. This would've been his 22nd year at the USA Cup
Ramsey worked at the tournament as a referee before becoming a referee assessor. He also worked year-round on recruiting other referees from Great Britain.
At Ramsey's funeral, Harrison met many of the referees her cousin had become friends with, both at the USA Cup and through his work as a referee tutor with The Football Association of England. Some asked to be pallbearers.
"We're all part of a bigger family," said Donald MacKinnon, the tournament's lead referee assessor. "Once you become a referee, you're a referee for life."