At the beginning of his presentation at Metro State University, Keith Edwards showed a slide of a poster that upon first glance read: Men Rape. That certainly got the attention of a packed classroom full of educators, there for the first statewide summit on sexual violence on college campuses.
If you looked a little closer, however, the words "men" and "rape" were sandwiched around the words, "can stop." Both statements are true, but Edwards was trying to make the point that his social change approach to sexual violence turns the traditional way of looking at rape upside down.
For decades, we've taught young women on campuses how to kickbox and how to avoid dangerous situations and dangerous men. We've taught cops and counselors how to better interview victims and how to treat them with empathy.
"The fact that men rape is obvious to us," said Edwards, a speaker and consultant to higher education institutions on sexual violence. "Yet we always focus on women, on the numbers of women who are raped, the percentages, as if we are unclear about who is perpetuating it. You can't take a gender-neutral approach."
The summit, organized by the Minnesota Coalition Against Sexual Assault (MNCASA), and others, could not have come at a more opportune time. The recent conviction and lenient sentencing of Brock Turner, a Stanford student who sexually assaulted a woman, has drawn nationwide attention to a phenomenon the 300 participants at the summit see nearly every day.
The big difference was that Turner was caught and convicted, something that rarely happens. For a change, millions of Americans were alerted to the problem. They were disgusted at the judge who sentenced him to just six months in jail, as well as by the plea by Turner's father not to punish him further for "20 minutes of action." They were also moved by the victim's passionate letter to the judge about the effect of the assault on her life.
"The Stanford victim's story illuminates many flaws, errors and bias in our response system," said Jeanne Ronayne, executive director of MNCASA. "It also gives us a glimpse in such a raw and poignant way about the trauma, shame and embarrassment that is suffered by victim survivors."
Edwards was glad people were outraged, but they should also understand that 99 percent of rapists face fewer consequences than Turner faces.