CIVIL UNIONS
Opponents, listen up
Thank you, Jacob Reitan, for once again applying logic and compassion in support of legalized gay marriage ("Civil unions: Separate is not equal," Dec. 7). Yet within the context of the article, I fear that those who need to hear the message most are those most likely to ignore your words.
Since the early days of our fight for recognition and legitimacy, one argument often used is gay people's supposed promiscuity and "lack of control." Well, one effective antidote is for both members in a long-term, loving relationship to have a legal stake in the game. Sounds like marriage to me, though it will likely fall on deaf ears.
Logic dictates that our opponents can't have it both ways. Oh, wait, I think we found the problem here ...
SHANNON O'NEIL, MINNETONKA
Rights and rings No, Jacob, separate is not equal -- nor is it meant to be. The true separation to consider should not be that of gay vs. straight but rather that of church vs. state. If the state is to grant separate rights to couples in unions, then the state should also enact those unions -- equally. Empowering the church to act on behalf of the state flies in the face of their separateness.
Couples' rights can be conferred by the state; the sacrament of marriage can stay in the church.
Constitutions exist to protect the rights of minorities from their suppression by majorities, not the other way around.
MARGARET WEBSTER, MINNEAPOLIS