Most songbirds don't live more than a year or two. Half of them die in the first year. That survival rate has been good enough to keep birds on the landscape for about 60 million years in one form or another.
What exactly was the first bird is debated, and the answer relies to some extent on the good fortune of actually finding evidence. That link might still be buried somewhere.
The transition from dinosaur to bird was neither quick nor clean. Many early models were scrapped as improvements evolved. Sort of like airplanes.
The first — and still the most famous — animal proclaimed to be a bird is Archaeopteryx. It had feathers, but also a scaled tail and teeth. It was one of many feathered transitional creatures; not quite birds, but working on it.
I always thought Archaeopteryx, companion to dinosaurs, was big, swooping on leathery wings through fern-filled forests. Actually, it was the size of a raven, about 20 inches long, weighing maybe 2 pounds. Not Jurassic Park. Sort of disappointing. The first Archaeopteryx fossil was found in a German quarry in the 1860s.
The history begins 60 million years ago just after the extinction event known as K-T. Scientists speculate on the cause: a huge comet striking Earth in Mexico or massive volcanic eruptions on the other side of the world. Either way, the world's air was filled with debris for a long time. Most large creatures died.
Left to themselves, small animals like birds thrived.
At that time, many modern orders of birds began to appear. (Birds that perch, as a group, are an order. Waterfowl form an order.)