If it seems as if you're getting fewer holiday cards this year, don't worry. Chances are it has nothing to do with your popularity.
The practice of sending Christmas cards is fading, collateral damage of the digital age.
After slowing growth since 2005, Christmas card sales declined in 2009. While the drop was slight, 0.4 percent, according to research firm Mintel International Group, evidence is building that the next generation of correspondents is unlikely to carry on the tradition with the same devotion as their parents.
The rise of social networking, smart phones and Apple iPads is changing the way friends and family stay in touch, diminishing the Christmas card's long-standing role as the annual social bulletin.
"People are up to date all the time on Facebook," said Kit Yarrow, a Golden Gate University professor who studies the 20- and 30-somethings of the Generation Y culture. "Gen Y-ers are notorious for not sending thank-you notes and not RSVPing. I just think that method of communication is foreign to them. And that doesn't bode well for the future of holiday cards."
Americans sent more than 1.8 billion Christmas cards through the mail last year, according to greeting card industry statistics. That figure is expected to drop to 1.5 billion this holiday season. Facebook, for its part, passed the 500 million member milestone in July.
Erika Maschmeyer, 30, won't be sending holiday cards. She has mailed holiday cards only once in her life, in her early 20s, when she had time on her hands.
"There are so many other ways to keep in touch," she said. "I stay in touch with e-mail and Facebook. It's an easy way to quickly see what people are doing."