Have doubts about getting married? Don't ignore them
- Blog Post by: Colleen Stoxen
- November 2, 2012 - 11:10 AM
Couples about to tie the knot shouldn't ignore nagging doubts about getting married, warns a University of Alberta researcher.
"If you are having doubts about the relationship, just ignoring them may make a difference years down the road," said Matthew Johnson who co-authored the study while at Kansas State University.
The study, published in the journal Family Process, found that couples who were more confident as they exchanged vows also spent more time together 18 months into the marriage, and were still happy with their spouses at the three-year mark.
In a time when divorce is prevalent, dealing with relationship issues up front is key, even if it could dim the glow of romance, according to Johnson. "It is tempting to push those concerns down and just go with the flow, but couples need to remember, the doubts you are having are there for a reason and dealing with them will be beneficial."
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