The four Burnsville boys were returning home from a day of cliff-diving and swimming.
For the four inseparable Burnsville teenage boys, Wednesday was just a lazy summer day spent cliff-diving and swimming on the Cannon River. But on the way home, the SUV they were riding in went out of control, killing one teen and injuring three others.
And on Thursday evening, hundreds of Burnsville High School classmates and parents gathered on a field alongside the athletic stadium to grieve after learning that 17-year-old Ty G. Alyea, who was a passenger in the SUV, had died and his friend, Cole. A. Borchardt, 18, who also was a passenger, was in critical condition at Regions Hospital.
Neither Alyea, an incoming senior and standout high school baseball player, nor Borchardt, a hockey star as a Burnsville High senior last season, were wearing seat belts, according to the State Patrol.
Matthew G. Berger, 17, who was the driver, was in fair condition, as was a third passenger, Tylan A. Procko, 17. The patrol said those two were wearing their seat belts when the crash occurred about 9:40 p.m. at 180th Street in Coates as the boys headed north on Hwy. 52 from the Cannon River, south of the Twin Cities. Authorities said the driver lost control of the SUV, sending it rolling until it came to rest in the southbound lanes.
By early Thursday morning, news of the accident was spreading quickly among Burnsville students and parents. And by evening they came together on a school practice field, where Alyea played football his freshman and sophomore years. The crowd came to grieve, embrace and support one another and Alyea’s family, who filed out of a school bus that Alyea’s mom drives.
Overwhelmed and grateful for the community’s support, the teen’s father, Greg Alyea, broke the hushed conversations of those grappling with a teenager’s death.
“We don’t want his death to be in vain,” his father told the crowd that encircled the family.
“If you’re the driver of a vehicle … please make sure your occupants are buckled in or don’t drive until they are.
“He may have been alive today if he had been strapped in.”
But the father blames no one. “I love these guys,” he said of the friends, “and I don’t want them to feel guilty that my son was the only one who didn’t walk away.”
State Patrol Lt. Eric Roeske said Alyea and Borchardt were seated in the back and were thrown from the SUV. The lieutenant said that “for some reason [passengers] are less likely to wear seat belts in the back,” even though belts are legally required regardless of where a passenger is seated.
There was no alcohol use detected among the driver or any of the passengers, the patrol added.
A somber vigil
In a show of emotional strength, Alyea’s family talked about the loss of a son, a brother, a cousin — a kid who was a prankster, an athlete and “just a great kid.”
Never mind that he barely grunted one- or two-word sentences when he talked to his family. Typical teenage boy. “He was hard to love sometimes,” his father said.
But the lesson is this: “If you ever have a chance to give them that one hug … do it. Just do it. It doesn’t matter if the kid doesn’t want it or has an attitude. Show your love … Because they may not be here tomorrow.”
The same advice goes for kids, Greg Alyea said: “Turn and say I love you to your mom and dad.”
Ty Alyea did that in his own way, his mother said. “Every time I would mouth the words, ‘I love you,’ he would just give me a grin like, ‘I know mom,’ every time,” Lori Alyea said.