Regarding the Monday headline "Spike in cases could derail holidays" (front page, Nov. 16) and the stunning statistics it reports: There have been more than 11 million COVID-19 cases nationally and over 245,000 deaths from COVID (and more by today). The numbers are increasing at a staggering level. So, why are we still wasting our time and energy trying to figure out how to "safely" celebrate the holidays with extended family? How about we take this seriously and say, "Spike in cases should derail holidays"?
I myself take a cue from our own resident epidemiologist, Michael Osterholm. I have heard him state repeatedly, "This is our COVID year," which to me means that for this year we make sacrifices, including abstaining from holiday celebrations with anyone who is not presently living in our house.
Let's stop playing games with promises of masks, distancing, tests and fewer than 10 people.
During our COVID year, we can best celebrate the holidays by doing our part to stop this virus dead in its tracks. It's tough, but for one year we can do it. It's a whole lot easier than saying goodbye to the people we love way too soon.
MARTHA WEGNER, St. Paul
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Our most memorable holidays are the unusual ones. My grandmother always recalled the year all three of her sons were serving in World War II whenever she heard the song "White Christmas." She hated that song. Everyone was either lonely and worried at home or risking life far away.
Another worldwide threat will form our 2020 holiday memories. But we can choose our story. We can stick to traditional gatherings of family and friends, or limit the celebration to our immediate household — even staying alone — and connecting with each other on a screen or phone. There's really no middle option as COVID-19 spikes out of control. I could be infected from an innocent encounter, or a guest may have visited friends the day before; either of us could unknowingly share the virus in conversations around the table.
Maybe next year will be memorable for returning to traditions and enjoying stories about the 2020 holidays apart — online chats, dropping off food on auntie's porch or family drive-by trips to wave at grandparents. Or it may be the year of regrets about 2020's gathering, followed by sicknesses, hospitalizations or even a funeral.
My extended family of 23 is planning a video call across 10 time zones from Alaska to Milan on Thanksgiving. It's the holiday we'll always remember for not getting together — the time we kept everyone safe to make future memories. I hope you do that, too.