Jessica Schaffhausen recalls chilling phone call in testimony

  • Article by: PAM LOUWAGIE , Star Tribune
  • Updated: April 4, 2013 - 11:39 PM

Aaron Schaffhausen regained the trust of his ex-wife last summer, she testified Thursday. Then he told her , “You can come home now. I killed the kids.”

– Aaron Schaffhausen had regained some of his ex-wife’s trust in the weeks leading to the day he destroyed her world.

After bouts of obsessive phone calls and threats surrounding their messy divorce, Schaffhausen had seemed to be getting better, a calm and composed Jessica Schaffhausen testified at her ex-husband’s insanity trial Thursday: He told her that he had stopped drinking, she said, and that he joined an online dating service and that he was moving on and was in a better place.

Instead of profanity and anger-laden phone calls from the North Dakota town where he was working, she said he was friendly, even when hashing out issues left over from their marriage. They also talked about books, music and movies.

“It was some of the best conversations we’d probably had in over a year,” she said. Aaron once again talked about taking part in their daughters’ lives.

So when her ex-husband flustered her with a surprise visit to the Twin Cities in July and said he wanted to see the girls at their home in River Falls, Jessica Schaffhausen conceded. She wanted the girls to have a father, she said.

“They really missed him and really wanted to see him,” she said through tears. “They loved him so much.”

When Aaron called her again that afternoon as she was getting in her car to drive home from work, she knew that she had been fooled, she testified.

Schaffhausen delivered just one line, she said: “You can come home now, I killed the kids.”

Aaron Schaffhausen has pleaded guilty to killing 11-year-old Amara, 8-year-old Sophie and 5-year-old Cecilia. His attorneys are trying to persuade a St. Croix County jury that Schaffhausen suffered from a mental disease or defect and should go to a mental institution instead of prison.

Attorneys kept Jessica Schaffhausen on the stand for most of the day Thursday, her second day of testimony. A petite woman with short cropped hair, Jessica Schaffhausen seemed to only glance at her ex-husband, who sat just feet away from her, flanked by his attorneys.

She cried only a few times, when talking about the day her daughters died. Asked if she needed a break, she replied: “No. I just want to get this over with.”

Contemplated divorce

Jessica calmly recounted a frustrating 12-year marriage in which she said Aaron suffered bouts of depression, played video games excessively, didn’t help around the house and often showed little interest in participating in the family. “It was almost like he would like to have us and put us on a shelf, and then when he wanted to interact with us he would take us down and he would play with us,” she said.

She had contemplated divorcing him for two years but at one point made an effort to try to save the marriage before deciding on a divorce when he became more stable employment-wise in the second half of 2011.

Depression medication had helped him at one point, she said, but then she noticed that when he drank while using it, it made him “weird.”

“He would say just really off-the-wall things,” she said.

He became obsessive during the divorce, she said. He quit talking to their daughters, refusing to see them and sometimes hanging up when they answered the phone. Yet at times he called Jessica incessantly, using other people’s phones when she blocked his number, she said.

Early in March 2012, he told her of thoughts he’d been having “eight times a day” to drive to her River Falls home, tie her up and make her pick which of their daughters he’d kill while she watched, “because he wanted to hurt me as much as I had hurt him,” she testified.

  • related content

  • Photo gallery: Schaffhausen trial, day 3

    Thursday April 4, 2013

    Scenes from the Hudson, WI courtroom.

  • April 3: Schaffhausen mostly silent in police interview

    Wednesday April 3, 2013

    The second day of Aaron Schaffhausen’s insanity trial resumed with a viewing of the lengthy police interview of Schaffhausen after he turned himself in to River Falls police.

  • Is Schaffhausen insane or just ‘inconceivably mean’?

    Wednesday April 3, 2013

    Attorneys painted opposite portraits of the father's state of mind when he killed his three daughters in their River Falls, Wis., home.

  • Aaron Schaffhausen sat between his attorneys Thursday morning as he waited for Jessica Schaffhausen to return for her testimony during the third day of his trial in Hudson, Wis.

  • Aaron Schaffhausen’s former roommate and co-worker Jarrod Klein pointed him out in the courtroom Thursday during the third day of the insanity trial.

  • Aaron Schaffhausen made his way out of the courtroom Thursday after Jessica Schaffhausen’s testimony during the third day of his insanity trial. Friends testified that he spoke of wanting to hurt his wife during outbursts when he talked about their divorce.

  • get related content delivered to your inbox

  • manage my email subscriptions


Connect with twitterConnect with facebookConnect with Google+Connect with PinterestConnect with PinterestConnect with RssfeedConnect with email newsletters