Valentine's Day still is three weeks away, but this love story can't wait.
Six couples gathered Wednesday over coffee and cookies at J. Arthur's coffee shop in Roseville. They laughed, took playful digs at one another, passed around photos of grand-kids and talked about marvelous trips taken to China and South Africa.
And, because they knew they could, they shared worries about uncertain futures.
"She's had a pretty rapid decline in the last year," said Tom Hemstreet, 56, of his wife, Karen Cassidy, 58. Karen draws applause after she pronounces her name. Tom does pretty much everything for Karen now, including bathing.
"I'm George's wife," said Anne Seiler, 69, of Little Canada.
"Your name, honey," George, 70, coaches gently.
These couples are participating in a new concept gathering steam across the country, called Memory Cafes. The cafes, some offering light fare, others bringing in speakers or activities, offer couples a haven to escape the caregiver-care receiver roles they've plummeted into due to Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia. For two hours twice a month, they get to be a couple again.
"We laugh, we tell stories," said Marlene Tolzman, 77, attending with husband, Bill, 72. "It's not really a serious, sad thing. It's a fun thing, which is why we like it."