Robyn Reynolds is a professional organizer in Los Angeles who founded her business Organize2Harmonize in 2008. She is a member of the National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals, written the book "A to Zen, 26 Tips to Inspire Organization," and has worked on the television show "Hoarders." Her clients include parents who need help with their kids' stuff as well as corporate executives and A-list celebrities.
Reynolds joined the Washington Post's Home Front online chat. Here is an edited excerpt.
Q: How do you prioritize what stays and what goes when combining each other's stuff?
A: It will depend on what the item is. When it comes to furniture, you have to consider the style and age of the item. If you really can't choose, maybe the answer is to get rid of both and purchase something you both like. If it's about kitchen items, I would say the newer pieces should stay.
Q: What's the best way to manage and merge art and decor when you don't have the same taste?
A: Compromise. Keep a few pieces each of you likes, then get some you both want. There's always something you can find that will work for both of you. You could also work with an interior designer. They're great with this type of conflict.
Q: What is the best way to let go of stuff?
A: Ask yourself these questions: Where is it from? Do I use it? Does it serve a purpose? Do I have space for it? People often get caught up in "it was a gift" and think they have to keep it. It's now yours, and you can do with it what you like. Then there are the expensive items; either stop buying expensive pieces, or accept what you spent for it and how long you've had it. Most importantly, you should love what you own, or it should at least serve a purpose. (I don't love my hammer, but it is necessary at times.)