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In the aftermath of the horrific killing of Renee Good, pins bearing the simple but arresting slogan “Be Good” began to appear, including one visibly worn by actor Mark Ruffalo at the Golden Globes. The phrase caught on quickly, as expressions tend to do in moments of grief, searching for meaning equal to the loss that inspired them.
As we prepare to reflect on the life and legacy of the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., we should be wary of a familiar danger: turning real people into avatars and flattening their lives into symbols we can admire without obligation. It is of greater value to ask what a life like Renee Good’s demands of us now. What does it actually mean to be good in this moment, not as sentiment but as practice?
The first step is resisting the urge to define ourselves only by what we oppose. To be good requires being for something. It demands intention.
In this sense, “Be Good” is not a slogan. It is a practice. Each letter reminds us to lean into our shared humanity and reflect on our duty to fight for justice, equality and the principles we associate with American democracy.
The B asks us to be brave on purpose. Courage is not a personality trait; it is a choice. Much has been made of Renee Good’s refusal to comply, but what she demonstrated was something deeper — a classic upstander ethic rather than the safer posture of the bystander. She saw something wrong and chose not to stand idly by. That decision, made in an ordinary moment, revealed extraordinary moral clarity.
That bravery was matched by a deliberate exercise of conscience. As we mark MLK Day, approach the 100th anniversary of Black History Month and near the nation’s 250th year, history offers a familiar lesson that moral clarity is rarely recognized in real time. What we later honor, we often first punish.