PAY DIRT KARA MCguire
Poor Ebenezer Scrooge. The main character in Charles Dickens' "A Christmas Carol" is notorious for his miserly ways. But what about his stunning transformation from penny-pincher to philanthropist?
"We forget there's a Scrooge at the end of the book," said Rick Kahler, a Rapid City, S.D., certified financial planner and co-author of "The Financial Wisdom of Ebenezer Scrooge: Five Principles to Transform Your Relationship with Money." Kahler spoke last week at a Financial Planning Association of Minnesota meeting about how, like Scrooge, it's possible to change the role of money in your life by visiting your financial ghosts -- past, present and future.
A believer in Dickens' message of redemption, I'm optimistic that our nation's present ghost -- picking up the pieces of our economy shattered by greed, overconsumption and lax regulation -- is frightening enough that we'll shift from spendthrifts to savers to avoid a tragic future.
But Kahler's not so sure. "We are very quick to want to know who to blame. Like Bob Cratchit, we stay in this victim mode rather than take responsibility for the part that we had in creating [the credit crisis]." Instead of pointing fingers, wallowing in self-pity or getting mad, Kahler suggests we ask ourselves, "'What can I do to affect my own bailout plan? What can I do to change my behavior so I don't repeat this?'"
The answer: Embark on a Scrooge-like journey (without having to venture into subzero temperatures in our pajamas with a ghost).
Kahler's short volume, co-written by financial therapist Ted Klontz and his psychologist son Brad Klontz, takes the reader through five stages of financial transformation using the behavior of Scrooge and his employee Cratchit as the vehicle.
But if you don't want to run out and buy the book, here's an exercise Kahler suggests to exorcise your financial ghosts.
1. Identify your "money scripts," or beliefs you have about money that influence how you earn it, save it and spend it. Money scripts can be as seemingly insignificant as "never buy cereal without a coupon" to "money is power."