Understanding J.J. McCarthy’s aura: A Gen Z guide to the Vikings’ new QB

September 6, 2025
Vikings quarterback J.J. McCarthy, 22, is “a pretty mature guy for his age," safety Josh Metellus said. (Carlos Gonzalez/The Minnesota Star Tribune)

In his vocabulary, references and interests, 22-year-old J.J. McCarthy, the youngest starting quarterback in the NFL this year, is an unusual mix of a Gen Zer and an old soul.

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J.J. McCarthy, at 22, is the youngest starting quarterback in the NFL and firmly entrenched in the Gen Z age group, which the Pew Research Center defines as those born between 1997 and 2012.

Most of McCarthy’s teammates and coaches are quick to tell you he’s an old soul, wise beyond his years and more mature than some might assume.

“He is Gen Z, but I wouldn’t say his personality is very Gen Z,” 27-year-old safety Josh Metellus said. “He’s a pretty mature guy for his age. You don’t really see the Gen Z popping out on him. Obviously, you get to talking about stuff from the past and you can see it really quick, but it’s not too bad.”

Even if not all of his vocabulary and references stem specifically from his age group, there’s still a uniqueness to McCarthy that older teammates and coaches like 36-year-old safety and fellow captain Harrison Smith or 46-year-old offense coordinator Wes Phillips can’t help but call “interesting.”

What’s that slang?

Here’s some words and phrases you may have seen in McCarthy’s social media posts or heard during his news conferences:

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Amor fati verb [ah·mor fa·tee]

The Latin phrase meaning “love of one’s fate” went viral several months after McCarthy used it on social media and public comments after his knee injury in August 2024. It hit the mainstream when it was the episode title and used in the season finale of Season 3 of HBO’s “The White Lotus.“ “I’m a huge believer in ‘life happens for you, not to you,’” McCarthy said in September 2024.

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Aura noun [awr·uh]

The word could be used interchangeably with “vibes.” There’s really no hidden meaning or secret subtext in Gen Z’s usage. Its meaning aligns with what you’ll find in the Oxford dictionary: “the distinctive atmosphere or quality that seems to surround and be generated by a person, thing, or place.” McCarthy’s used the word in a social media post about Andrew Van Ginkel’s 63-yard pick-six against the Jets last year.

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More life noun [mor lif]

The phrase has roots in Jamaica, where it is used to wish someone well and was popularized by a dancehall artist. Canadian rapper Drake then took the phrase global when he used it as the title for a 2017 mixtape. McCarthy has occasionally used the phrase as a location tag on his Instagram posts.

EQ or emotional intelligence noun [ee cue ... ih·​moh·​shuh·​nl in·tel·i·jens]

A sister phrase to IQ (intelligence quotient). Vikings General Manager Kwesi Adofo-Mensah said emotional intelligence was a strength of McCarthy’s when the team drafted him. McCarthy said he first heard of EQ from his fiancée’s dad. “It’s just the ability to connect with others to build relationships because at the end of the day, you’re going to war every single Sunday and to be able to be a part of a true family and to have those relationships on and off the field that are willing to die for each other,” McCarthy said.

Bet noun [bet]

An affirmative or confirmation. Could also be used in a sort of “watch me” way, as it seems McCarthy might have intended when he posted it the day the Big Ten suspended then-Michigan head coach Jim Harbaugh in 2023.

Tasty adj. [tay·stee]

Asked about phrases McCarthy uses a lot around the locker room, right tackle Brian O’Neill, 29, said with a laugh: “If you tell him something that he likes, sometimes he’ll say ‘Tasty.’” It didn’t seem McCarthy uses the phrase explicitly about food, but more as a catch-all for enjoying something.

Educational reading list

At the start of training camp this summer, McCarthy said that “father books” were at the top of his reading list. He and his fiancée, Katya Kuropas, are expecting their first child, a son, this month.

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But he’s shared other recommendations since arriving in Minnesota, too.

Last fall, in his first news conference following his knee surgery, McCarthy mentioned three books that he said he was working through simultaneously because of his ADHD: “The Invention of Yesterday: A 50,000-Year History of Human Culture, Conflict and Connection” by Tamim Ansary; “A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose” by Eckhart Tolle; and “Stay Sane in an Insane World” by Greg Harden.

Harden, who died last September, was a renowned athletics counselor at Michigan until 2020. Retired quarterback and Michigan grad Tom Brady wrote the foreword to Hardy’s book.

“Those are just all books that really kind of helped me throughout this process of trying to strengthen this [knee],” McCarthy said last fall.

Metellus, also a former Wolverine, said he put McCarthy on to Mel Robbins’ 2024 book “The Let Them Theory,” which hit mainstream in recent months.

Meditating, gratitude and yoga

McCarthy’s meditation practices first went viral while he was at Michigan, but he’s said he relied on them “every single day, multiple times a day” throughout his recovery process this past year.

Metellus said he’s asked McCarthy many questions about meditation. He also said McCarthy has a special device he uses in the locker room while he meditates, often not moving for 30 minutes pre-practice.

“He had the science to it. That’s the Gen Z, though,” Metellus said with a smile. “I’m more, go sit in a yoga studio. He’s more, let’s go do it on this fancy little free machine he probably got at his NIL deal.”

McCarthy said in late April that he also picked up gratitude journaling during his rehabilitation. The practice has become a trend in recent years, with companies selling branded journals with prompts inside and many TikTok videos showing audiences how to make one.

With McCarthy’s hyper-focus on health and wellness, it fits that he’s a frequent wearer of the Alo Yoga brand. He’s even seen meditating against a tree in an all-Alo outfit in a recent video posted to his Instagram with the brand tagged.

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Alo Yoga, founded in 2007, has become popular among Gen Z in the past few years, thanks to celebrities and influencers not just wearing their clothes but also attending workout classes at an invite-only wellness studio within their headquarters in Beverly Hills. Bengals quarterback Joe Burrow is also partnered with the brand.

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Emily Leiker

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Emily Leiker covers the Vikings for the Minnesota Star Tribune. She was previously the Syracuse football beat writer for Syracuse.com & The Post-Standard, covering everything from bowl games to coaching changes and even a player-filed lawsuit against SU. Emily graduated from Mizzou in 2022 is originally from Washington state.

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