A few weeks ago, daredevil Nik Wallenda walked untethered atop Orlando's 400-foot-tall Ferris wheel — as it was spinning. This is the same guy who has traversed tightropes stretched across the Grand Canyon and Niagara Falls and between two Chicago skyscrapers.
In an interview, he said he wants to be an inspiration for others. People don't need to risk their lives, he clarified, but they should push themselves to do better and be greater.
One of the reasons we admire people who take risks is that most of us are scared stiff at the prospect of taking risks ourselves. "I could never do something like that," we say. Sometimes it seems that the only people who can take risks successfully are the people who have nothing to lose.
Fortunately, most of us will never have to worry about taking monumental risks. Of course, we use that to downplay the importance of the risks we do face. If it's not something that involves real, measurable danger — sky diving, for example — it's clearly not important as far as risks go. What you really mean is that you think the fear you feel about your "small" risk is misplaced — an overreaction.
The same fear that keeps you from taking a tangible risk like sky diving can also keep you from seeking a promotion. It keeps you from going back to school to get your master's degree, or taking a vacation without checking messages every 45 minutes.
You don't call it fear, of course, but that's what it is. It's amazing how the human brain can be so effective at using circular reasoning and rationalization as a way to avoid taking action.
In short, playing it safe isn't the way to get ahead. You've got to go out on a limb sometimes — but not so far that you fall off. Intelligent risk-taking involves these steps:
Know your motivations. What do you really want to achieve? Why? Don't take major chances on something you're not enthusiastic about. You'll work harder on goals that are important to you. Failure at something trivial may make you reluctant to try something really important.