Not long before he turned 40 on July 31, Mike Yeo saw a picture of himself and thought: "I look really old. What happened? Where did all the lines in my face come from? Where did the hair go?" ¶ The Wild coach stopped cutting an anchovy on top of his Caesar salad and began to laugh, saying: "Well, I'm pretty sure I lost my hair before I got here, but it was definitely one of those moments where everything came together: I'm not a kid anymore. I'm almost 40."
So on his 40th birthday, Yeo did something he had never done — he went white-water rafting on the Ottawa River. Along with his mother, Barb, brother-in-law, Devin, children, Braeden and Kyler, and wife, Tanya, the family leapt aboard a six-man raft.
"It was a blast, except, my wife didn't fare too well," Yeo said, chuckling … hard. "First time, we all got dumped and she didn't like that. We talked her into coming in one more time and she was the only one to get dumped. After lunch, she went on the 12-man raft. They don't flip."
Yeo spent the summer recharging his battery for the 2013-14 season. His family lives on "Yeo Island" — a two-acre private island seven hours north of Toronto on Lake Nipissing. He says it sounds more luxurious than it is.
"It's 150 yards from the mainland. We haven't built a bridge yet," Yeo joked.
But after spending the grind of the hockey season often away from home, Yeo cherishes the family time. He held his Stanley Cup party there after winning the silver chalice as a Pittsburgh Penguins assistant in 2009. And almost daily, he heads out on the lake alone to fish for walleye, bass, northern pike, muskie.
"I come back from there, and I can't wait to get in the office," Yeo said.
"A lot of times I'm out on the boat fishing, and I'm thinking of hockey without any kind of distractions. For me, a big part of me getting better as a coach is that reflection and evaluating myself."