James Zimmerman's adult life could easily have been defined by tragedy. When he was 36, a freight train killed his wife and their six children as she drove them to school in Waseca, Minn.
The tragedy became a national story. The monsignor remarked at the funeral: "The cry of lamentation went out to the entire nation and the world," according to a story in the Waseca Journal on Sept. 16, 1959.
Zimmerman later remarried and rarely spoke of the incident, but he testified in 1961 to help pass a Minnesota law that required school buses to transport nonpublic school students. Before the accident, parochial school students had not been able to ride the bus with children in public schools.
"The accident defined his survival, not his life," said his daughter, Mariia Zimmerman of Arlington, Va. "He was a firm believer about not living in the past but rather finding out what you need to do in life."
He died of chronic obstructive pulmonary disease on Jan. 25 at the age of 91.
After the train accident, Mr. Zimmerman received thousands of letters of condolence, many from women around the country offering to be there for him. He threw all the invitations away, except one, from a woman whose niece also lived in southern Minnesota.
After several false starts and meeting separately with the same priest for advice, Zimmerman married Vivian Hoffman Kraus in 1962. Kraus was a widow with six children after her husband died of cancer. She and Zimmerman then had three children of their own.
"I am named after the priest who advised them on separate occasions and gave them his blessing to marry again," said son Peter Zimmerman, 51, of Waseca.