Q You often recommend exercise as a way to cope with stress. For me (and the team I manage), that's easier said than done. Could you help me think through realistic ways to be more active myself, along with ways to help work it into our workplace routine without seeming to waste time or be a drill sergeant?
A Start by thinking through ways to make changes yourself, and then consider steps to take in the workplace.
The inner game
Know your starting point. Our past attitudes about exercise influence our future choices. It may be positive, as with one client who had fun exercising with her parents. For many, it's negative -- something they should do or haven't succeeded at. Positive attitudes inspire, while negative ones will hold you back. Becoming aware of them will help you follow through on your desired actions.
Keep it simple. Picture adding some small, doable steps into your routine. What does this vision look like? What actions would you take? It may be 10-minute walks a couple of times a day plus a stretch break in your office. Imagine how this feels, experiencing the serenity, calm or energy that you'll gain.
Analyze your life. From the time you wake up to the time you go to sleep, you're making choices about your time.
Go through your day and think about all the different times and ways you could be active. There are lots of resources online that can give you ideas.
Then think about the barriers that could stop you and plan ways around them. Figure out what it'll take to make activity a priority.