Watching the recent surge of women's sports enthusiasts clamoring to save female athletes from the transgender rights movement, it's hard not to feel a little wistful.
So this is what it's like to matter.
This year, lawmakers in more than 20 states have introduced legislation to ban transgender kids from girls' sports, under the guise of protecting women and girls. Bills have already passed in Mississippi and Idaho.
The quest to block trans girls from competition has some prominent supporters.
Former President Donald Trump embraced female athletes in February, declaring at the Conservative Political Action Conference that it was "so important" to "protect women's sports." Former South Carolina Gov. Nikki Haley wrote an essay for National Review titled "We Must Protect Women's Sports."
The cause is catching on: One recent Politico poll found that 46% of women support a ban on transgender athletes (as do 43% of young adults born since 1997). This is disappointing. We might look to champions like Megan Rapinoe, Billie Jean King and Candace Parker, who have been outspoken supporters of inclusion, as well as trans athletes who are shouldering the brunt of this fight. Exclusion elevates nobody.
But all this new passion has made me wonder: What if all these people claiming to be fighting for the future of women's sports would really fight for the future of women's sports? What if they suddenly said, "We demand women's sports get equal resources, equal media coverage, and equal pay"? What if these new activists embraced women's sports and invested in female athletes, instead of using us as their excuse for transphobia?
This controversy hurts, because female athletes of all backgrounds have been spending decades fighting for equal treatment — and we are still far from winning. The conversation is disingenuous, patronizing and often racist. Using our struggle to score political points is a distraction.