Short take: Royal marriage

April 26, 2011 at 10:50PM
This undated photo made available by Arklu shows their Princess Catherine Doll which is fashioned to resemble Kate Middleton who is set to marry Prince William later this month on April 29. (AP Photo/HO, Arklu) NO SALES, EDITORIAL USE ONLY
This undated photo made available by Arklu shows their Princess Catherine Doll which is fashioned to resemble Kate Middleton who is set to marry Prince William later this month on April 29. (AP Photo/HO, Arklu) NO SALES, EDITORIAL USE ONLY (Associated Press - Ap/The Minnesota Star Tribune)

From a Boston Globe editorial

Thirty years ago, Americans gushingly embraced the nuptials of Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer as a celebration of marriage itself, a Victorian novel come to life, replete with a golden carriage.

But that, of course, proved to be a fairy tale, and the surprise ending was just how seriously Americans fretted when the marriage unraveled.

As extraordinary as the circumstances going into the union (an heir to the throne, a blushing virgin), those attending the breakup were distressingly ordinary (incompatibility, affairs).

And yet, here we go again.

While more muted than Charles-and-Di fever, the excitement and curiosity surrounding this week's wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton is palpable.

It has its own story lines -- her ancestors were coal miners, his mother was the still-beloved Diana -- but the bottom line is people on both sides of the ocean want deeply to believe in the institution of marriage.

This latest wedding will offer viewers a more nuanced sense of what it takes to achieve an enduring bond. There's no single model, but just about every one of them on display in London on Friday suggests that common goals, and a willingness to work toward ever deeper commitment, are a better recipe than wealth, title, or power.

William and Kate can look up to Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip, with their shared sense of duty amid largely separate interests, as an older model of stately commitment.

Then there's the groom's dad, Prince Charles, and his second wife, Camilla, whose attraction survived a roller-coaster of youthful breakups, family resistance, marriages to others and public opposition to end with something like a deeply felt companionship.

William and Kate, and their millions of well-wishers, can certainly hope for better, but everyone should be aware by now that they could also do worse.

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