Norm Tiedemann and his family in Woodbury have enjoyed hosting high school exchange students from Europe, and two years ago one of them insisted on shopping Black Friday. She argued that it "needs to be part of my American experience."
Tiedemann said via e-mail that no one in his family is a shopping enthusiast and he had no plans for Black Friday, that frantic and crowded day of sales that happens the day after Thanksgiving.
But Christin was from Homberg, a small German town. She explained that shops back home are not open on Sunday, as that's family day, and there are typically only two small annual sales. She would not let the subject drop at the Thanksgiving dinner.
Tiedemann finally agreed to go if Christin at least tried a slice of mincemeat pie, and so a few minutes before 5 the following morning the entire family was in the parking lot of Kohl's in Woodbury.
Christin snapped photos of the hundreds lined up outside the adjacent Target store, and then they jumped into the line at Kohl's for its 5 a.m. opening. After grabbing a few items, it took at least an hour to get through checkout, as two lines wrapped around each other.
"Christin absolutely enjoyed it," Tiedemann said. "She just liked being there with all the people and the excitement. It is, unfortunately, a perfect example of the American experience."
Many of us share that view, that it's at least a little disappointing that an over-the-top shopping excess like Black Friday can be perceived by a German teenager as an essential part of a genuine American life.
Social critics have deplored it and preachers may have inveighed against it, but there is another take on our distinctive consumer culture -- that how we came to buy stuff became an essential part of our becoming a diverse, egalitarian and "democratic" society.