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This past January, like so many Minnesotans, I found myself with a severe case of the winter doldrums.
This isn’t the easiest state to live in as a single guy, and I found myself complaining to one of my best friends, Chuck, about my seemingly stagnant social life and sense of isolation during the tundra season.
“You should join a running club,” he said to me. “I think it’d serve you well. And I’ll try it with you.”
The suggestion confused me at first. Spring was a way off. What good would joining a jogging group in a few months do for me now? “No, Andy,” Chuck responded. “These groups run all year long. We can try it this Saturday.”
The idea sounded awful. The high that weekend was barely above 0. The thought of meeting a bunch of strangers to go running at 8 a.m. in the dark and freezing cold was beyond unappealing.
But when I turned 40, I promised myself I’d say yes to more things and keep an open mind about new experiences. So, I said, “Sure.”