Whether Minnesota should have been surprised by the huge budget surplus given the economic and stock market recovery is far less important than how it approaches this unexpected windfall.
Most of us don't treat money that we didn't expect to receive in the same way that we handle our day-to-day budgets. When we receive a gift or an inheritance, we feel temporarily rich. This may lead us to behave in ways outside the ordinary.
Money should be fungible. It should make no difference whether we received something from our work or our good fortune. But it doesn't always work that way.
Since how we receive money affects how we use it, there are certain ways to work with this. Here are some ideas.
Include expected inheritances in your planning. Clients hate this. They love to come in and say that their 95-year-old parent is going to live forever and they don't want to count on any inheritance. Here's the problem — if the inheritance is segregated from planning, it will lead to decisions that are not as good as those that would be made using realistic expectations. And if it is highly likely that you are going to receive something like an inheritance in the future, doesn't it make sense to potentially save less today so that you can equalize your lifestyle?
Let your children know in advance whether you expect to make annual gifts to them.
People hate to feel trapped, so they don't want to commit to something that they may not be able to sustain. But if you are in a fortunate position where you can provide support to your children, let them know so it can be part of their budget. This will make them use the gift more effectively. If you are not able to make a regular commitment, then decide whether you want to do something that benefits yourself as well as your children.
One of our clients rents a large vacation home every other year, and the children come with their grandchildren. If one of the kids doesn't want to come for any reason, they don't have to. The clients don't have to worry about everything being equal, because the offer is extended to all, even if they all don't partake in it.