PHILADELPHIA – Retired Army Col. Timothy Williams saw all kinds of action: in Somalia, in the Gulf region and in Iraq. He enlisted straight out of high school and eventually joined the Special Forces, also known as the Green Berets.
Now that he's left the military, he works at another demanding job, as executive director of the Veterans Multi-Service Center, or VMC, in Philadelphia.
During his time in uniform, Williams oversaw thousands of servicemen and servicewomen, commanding the Third Battalion in Operation Iraqi Freedom and serving with Special Operations Command Central for two years in Iraq. He commanded the 72nd Field Artillery Brigade at Fort Dix and also served as chief of training and commandant of the Stability Academy at Camp Victory, Iraq.
For Williams, 55, the transition to civilian life was unexpectedly rough.
"My entire identity was tied up in wearing a uniform since I was 17," he said. "I turned 18 in basic training. Emotionally, retirement was tough on me. I thought I was ready, because my last job in the military I worked with FEMA. They're civilians, even though they're quasi-government. I've worked on national exercises with other nations, and earned three master's degrees, but I wasn't prepared mentally for what happened to me."
He sympathizes with other retiring vets.
"I'm a Special Forces guy. I thrive on volatile and uncertain environments. So it took me six months to come to grips with never wearing a uniform again."
Williams has seen many friends leave the service and "have nothing to strive for, and get lost. Or some come home with issues which are exacerbated" without daily routines. "It's tough to go from being part of something much larger than yourself and then having no structure around you."