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While the pope will get much press and many accolades for making this trip ("Pope arrives in Canada to apologize," July 25), those of us in the abuse community see it just a little differently. You have probably been aware of this issue for many years, I have been aware for many years, and native people have been aware of this for their entire lifetimes. As such, we tend to not be very excited over him now arriving with much fanfare to apologize.
It's a good PR move in a time when the churchwide synod is supposed to be listening to the people. Leaders are now asking us to state the problems that we have seen and experienced. One would ask, "Where the heck have you been for the last century?" If you are still asking me what's wrong, then have you not been paying attention, or could it be that you just don't care? The church has known about these schools since their inception, and they've known of the abuses that took place at them since their inception. Where was the concern? What action was taken to remedy this situation and address the needs of the thousands of victims? Books have been written about this, movies have been made, newspaper articles have been written, and still it went on. Now church leaders discover that wrong has been done and come to apologize. The people don't need their words, they need action, and they needed it a long time ago — ask the survivors of these schools. Are they aware that some of these boarding schools are still open?
It might sound trite to say, but we have heard this line from bishops all over the U.S. and in other countries: "If we have done anything to harm you, we are so sorry." IF! Show me the action. Show me how you've acted to remediate this travesty and assure us that it will never be repeated. Show me that you are holding the people responsible for criminal behavior accountable. Then we can talk about forgiveness. Until then keep the thoughts to yourself, as you've done for so many years.
Frank Meuers, Plymouth
The writer is a retired Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests leader.
POLLINATORS
Will we ever go back?
I'm old enough to have abundant memories, and some are beginning to haunt me these days. I was renting space in a Franklin Avenue architectural firm 42 years ago and, like now, there were a lot of events competing for my attention. But one will stay with me forever: I was called upstairs by a colleague and told to look out the band of windows facing Franklin Avenue, steps from the Mississippi River. Outside, the sky was filled with movement and color. What appeared to be millions of monarch butterflies were fluttering past the office, migrating downriver in the early autumn air. It was spectacular to witness this event; I'd never seen it before and I haven't seen it since.