As the wife of an active-duty Army officer I feel compelled to respond to the commentary by Mark Dvorak published on Sept. 16 ("Why we must protest national anthem protests," Opinion Exchange). I believe such commentary only furthers the nation's military-civilian divide while also misrepresenting what the military's role is for our country.
I married into a military family and have been an Army wife for 11 years. But just because I was not raised in a "military household" does not mean my parents were not proud of their country. In fact, they often spoke of their responsibilities as American citizens, like voting in elections and paying their taxes — things that contribute to the greater good for everyone, that make this country better for everyone.
This is why I find it perplexing that the military and veterans have been deemed the spokespeople for the American flag and national anthem. Do these not belong to every American? My husband and several of his family members took an oath to support and defend the Constitution of the United States, something that also belongs to every American, whether military member or not. That Constitution gives us one of our distinctive American rights — the freedom of speech.
I become disheartened when groups of Americans claim ownership to the flag and anthem over others. I agree with the author of the commentary in his point that "veterans served beside fellow Americans of all backgrounds." In many Army households across this great nation, flags fly outside all kinds of houses, no matter their occupants' race, ethnicity, socioeconomic background or even political affiliations. (Yes, there are plenty of Democrats in Army households, too.)
I believe the rights those soldiers fight for, including the freedom of speech and the right to assemble peacefully in protest, are what should be the focus of military members and veterans, not only the American flag and national anthem.
Courtney Marsh, Alexandria
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I respectfully disagree with the patriotism opinion piece. I am also a veteran. I love standing with others for the playing of "The Star-Spangled Banner" before a game. It takes me back to boot camp graduation day when I and my shipmates stood at attention listening and contemplating what we had just accomplished and what the future held for us. For the most part, I have no idea what anyone else is thinking about. Except for the athlete who quietly kneels. I assume he/she is thinking this flag isn't working for me and I wish I could do something about it. I'm not offended by it. What does offend me is a team staying in the locker room until the anthem is over. Avoidance takes no guts at all.
Liz Schading, New Brighton
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The Minnesota American Legion doesn't represent all veterans. The group I served with in Vietnam was practically all drafted. Who wants to be a combat infantryman? We were sent to do a job few others wanted; many signed up for more time so they avoided combat. In my platoon were Black men from all over America, Native Americans from Oklahoma, one Hell's Angel from Chicago, Hispanic men from Texas to California, gang members from Detroit, backcountry men who received their first new boots when they were inducted. A group of men who had no choice but to go do their duty for God and country. Read Tim O'Brien's book "The Things They Carried" for an in-depth understanding.
I'm a two-time commander and carried the flag at the front of the parade and buried good men with the color guard.