I'm transgender, and simply using a public restroom is always unnerving or even terrifying. Sometimes I avoid drinking water, which is especially unhealthy when you've donated a kidney like I have. I've left events early or have driven 15 minutes out of the way to a Starbucks because I knew it had an inclusive restroom policy. I've asked friends to escort me to the bathroom for safety and have done the same for them. Almost every trans person I know has these stories.
I feel unsafe in public restrooms partly because people like a July 24 letter writer (who called a proposed University of Minnesota policy on personal pronouns "both appalling and stupid") either paint transgender people as automatic sexual predators or suggest that transgender-inclusive policies will empower cisgender predators to act. Both of these ideas have been proven false in the numerous states, cities and companies that protect access to the restrooms and other facilities we deem most appropriate or safe for ourselves.
In 2016, the National Task Force to End Sexual and Domestic Violence Against Women released a consensus statement from 324 organizations affirming that "Discriminating against transgender people does not give anyone more control over their body or security. Those who perpetuate falsehoods about transgender people and nondiscrimination laws are putting transgender people in harm's way and making no one safer."
Ironically, asking hypothetical "safety" questions puts me in real danger by encouraging self-styled restroom safety vigilantes.
Erika von Kampen, Minneapolis
CEO PAY
How much needed? Less than that, even for a lavish lifestyle
A July 26 letter writer, reacting to a July 22 article about executive compensation ("Calculating the gap"), posed an important question: How much money does a person really need? I'd like to try to answer.
Imagine you own a $2 million house in the city and a $1 million beach home. Your spouse has a $25,000 per month allowance for food, clothing and household items. Your children attend MIT and Harvard. You own three luxury cars; your family goes on multiple exotic vacations every year; and you have an entertainment budget of $10,000 per month. You carry the highest-quality health insurance and have a "slush fund" of $100,000 per year for incidentals. How much money is required to support such a lavish lifestyle? By my calculations, an annual take-home of $1.5 million, or gross pay of about $3 million.
If you can live this sumptuous lifestyle with an annual salary of "only" $3 million, why do Minnesota corporations feel the need to compensate CEOs with $60 million, $47 million and $27 million, as reported by the Star Tribune? It seems corporate boards have changed their policy of providing top executives with an extremely comfortable lifestyle to providing an utterly opulent one reminiscent of the excesses of Wall Street hedge-fund managers, Russian oligarchs and Saudi sheikhs.
G. Michael Schneider, Minneapolis
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