SEXUAL MISCONDUCT |
Talk about being tone deaf
I want to applaud the Star Tribune for asking the tough questions about two beloved Minnesotans accused of sexual harassment — U.S. Sen. Al Franken and Garrison Keillor.
In Keillor's response to his case and Franken's, there is a selective attention to detail and a tone deafness on some important issues that need to be addressed.
Regarding Franken, Keillor's essay ignores allegations made by women at campaign events here in Minnesota, and so does not address Franken's absurd, cynical and harmful remarks implying those women are lying or mistook his "warm nature" for grabbing their behinds. Moreover, in dismissing Leeann Tweeden's complaint because she "knew the game," Keillor ignores the fact that the game of comedy was itself rigged against women, and part of the problem.
Keillor's response to his own situation was specific and straightforward, but it ignores important aspects of context. For example, his accuser may have told him at the time that she forgave him because she felt that she had to; that same context might have made a touch he meant as innocent something truly invasive for her. I think powerful men have to go beyond saying "there are two sides" and start trying to understand how their positions of privilege have meant not having to take the other side seriously — the side of the women whose boundaries they have not respected or understood.
I hope that you at the Star Tribune keep asking the tough questions and that you push Franken harder on his "I don't remember" answer. I don't remember every interaction I've ever had, either. But I can tell you categorically that none of them involved putting my hands on a stranger's behind. Shouldn't a seated U.S. senator be able to say the same?
Penny Edgell, Eagan
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