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I've always been pro-choice, including 30 years ago when I chose to place my child for adoption after an unplanned pregnancy. Knowing that the decision was mine alone (not the government's) was not lost on me — I was empowered, and I owned my choice fiercely. I agree with Matt Birk ("It's time for pro-choice people to come clean," Opinion Exchange, Aug. 11) that adoption as an option often gets lost in all the hyperbole, but putting everyone who is pro-choice in a tiny "abortions all the time" box is a completely inaccurate, simplistic caricature designed to turn a complex issue — one that is never one-size-fits all for any woman who faces it — into simple-to-digest partisan red meat. It's also, in fact, the polar opposite of "lead[ing] with love and compassion" as he claims he's doing.
Deb Kubes, Eagan
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Putting aside the religious zealotry and obvious fact that Birk has never for a second actually listened to the pro-choice side talk about why we're pro-choice, I do appreciate the Star Tribune printing the words of that spectacularly failed candidate because I actually do agree with him that the sides in the debate are labeled incorrectly. His side is not pro-life, and my side is not pro-choice.
The right-wing position of making sure each baby is born no matter what, no matter how miserable of a life they may be entering into, no matter how many physical, mental, financial or sociological disadvantages they may be having forced upon them or their parent(s)? Making sure that child is born and then leaving it to its own devices for survival can only be described as pro-birth.
The left-wing position of believing adults have the capability of making their own health care decisions, including whether or not to have children, but following that with actions based on the belief that government has a moral obligation to ensure those children have the best possible health, educational, sociological and financial resources available to actually live a productive life? I would describe that as pro-life.