In medical slang, my son is a zebra.
Most of us will someday have conditions that are common — cancer, diabetes, heart disease — diseases with familiar symptoms as recognizable as a horse. But my 3½-year-old son, Bodhi, is a zebra.
There are few outward signs that Bodhi has an incurable disease. His developmental delay is felt, not seen. And the challenges he faces are often invisible or unrecognized. For example, for a full year of his life, he had so little energy that he rarely smiled.
Thursday, Feb. 28, is Rare Disease Day. But for thousands of families, rare disease day is every day.
There are about 8,000 rare diseases — sometimes called orphan diseases because so few people have them — each with its own challenges. With many rare diseases, it can take months, if not years, to get a diagnosis.
It took 2½ years for my son to receive a diagnosis, partly because for the first year of his life we didn't know he needed one, and partly because his doctors had never seen such a case before. Within a few hours of his birth, his temperature and blood-sugar levels plummeted, and he was sent to a special-care nursery. But when he rallied, we didn't press our pediatrician.
A year later, however, he started having seizure-like episodes that came in clusters, as many as 80 a day.
The first neurologist we saw assured us that he would have to be in constant seizure for hours before it would damage his brain.