Hot flashes, night sweats, insomnia, vaginal dryness and weight gain are all common symptoms of menopause. And for the most part, talking about it has been taboo.
But the mood has swung, and “the change in life” that’s been shrouded in secrecy all these years is being met head on — even celebrated — with treatments, workshops and camaraderie.
The menopause movement is also trending in travel. There are resorts and hotels offering tailored amenities and programming including experts advising how to cope with menopause with solid tips about supplements, nutrition and exercise. The idea is to help women with take-away advice while also providing a vacation to relax, meet others who are also going through the second spring and leave with coping skills to deal with the uncomfortable symptoms.
“Menopause retreats are a welcome new trend,” says Kathleen Jordan, chief medical officer at MIDI Health, a virtual clinic for women navigating perimenopause and menopause. “The wave of recognizing menopause as a very real stressor is here and retreats are part of the solution.”
A menopause retreat done well is women talking to other women — sharing their stories and creating community — but also sharing information and engaging in conversations on best practices to navigate this time of life, Jordan says.
For participants, it’s a good idea to understand the agenda, Jordan says. Are you looking for pampering and a more spa-like experience? Or are you seeking expert information? Or is it a time to form a community and practice and learn self-care? Each of these can be included in a menopause retreat but to different depths and lengths.
“I personally love when I get asked to stop by a menopause retreat and answer questions,” Jordan says. “As a clinician and menopause provider, questions for me are often centered around the role of hormone replacement therapy, supplements or just reviewing the evidence on a variety of interventions.”
Menopause happens in midlife — when both stressors and responsibilities run high, including caring for aging parents, dealing with child care and sometimes dealing with layered financial and job responsibilities. These factors can contribute to poor sleep, high stress levels and just overall not feeling well, says Jordan.