Stillwater senior Braden Cousineau thought he had his life planned out. At age 14, he brought a detailed plan to join the military to his parents. He also played on the Ponies' football team and pole vaulted, looking forward to a successful senior year before heading off to serve his country.
Those plans changed in late 2014, Cousineau's junior year, when his parents and trainer noticed his spine was severely crooked. After a whirlwind of X-rays and doctor visits, the diagnosis came — Cousineau had spondylolisthesis. His spine had slipped off his tailbone, putting stress on the spinal cord. Doctors said without major spinal fusion surgery, he would be paralyzed from the waist down within the next 10 years.
Cousineau said the consequences of the diagnosis were worse than the diagnosis itself. In a final pre-operation meeting, head surgeon Dr. David Polly told his family that football would not be an option.
"My parents and Dr. Polly … went on talking and I just shut down," Cousineau said. "Everything just kind of went blank. … We're a huge football family, and my dad's been coaching high school football [at Stillwater] ever since I can remember. This was supposed to be the year that I was finally going to do what I've been waiting to do … and that was just kind of all gone in an instant."
The bad news kept coming. Cousineau later found out spondylolisthesis was a disqualifier for enlistment in the military. The family had already visited colleges and met with ROTC directors on each campus.
"I [wanted to] make my impact and make a difference and help people," Cousineau said. "I was about as far into the process as you can go without signing anything. … It was kind of depressing."
Fast forward to March 9, 2015. Cousineau was in intensive care after a 10-hour procedure. He frequently experienced 30-minute spasms from the pain, screaming for nurses to give him more medication.
"It just pains you to see your child in so much pain," said Deanna Cousineau, Braden's mother. "And not knowing what walking was going to look like for him [or] if sports were even going to be an option for him, it was just so heart-wrenching."