The Pham family escaped from Vietnam in 1981. The baby, Minh, was six weeks old when they left for the United States. The Phams settled in Woonsocket, R.I. It is a city of 40,000 that sits on the southern border of Massachusetts and is midway between Boston and Providence.
The neighborhood in which they moved was filled with white kids playing baseball in the summer, and as he grew, Minh joined in those games.
"I started playing in backyards, and then playgrounds and then kids leagues,'' Pham said. "Rocco and I wound up on the same team.''
Minh was 9 when his mother, Suu, was diagnosed with cancer. His father Dung was working to pay the bills and to care for his wife, and felt as if he was not able to give enough time or resources to his son.
"Minh was at our place with Rocco a lot of the time, and we just said that he could move in with us,'' Dan (Rocky) Baldelli said.
His mother died when Minh was 12. "There was never an adoption; Minh just became part of the family,'' Dan said.
On Thursday, Rocco Baldelli was introduced as the 14th manager of the Twins – and the first since Ray Miller in 1985 to be hired from outside the organization. When Twins baseball CEO Derek Falvey introduced the Baldelli family, he pointed out the three brothers: Nick, Dante and Minh.
Rocco and Minh are both 37. Nick played baseball at Trinity College in Hartford, Conn. at the same time Falvey, 35, was a seldom-used pitcher there. And Dante, the kid brother, is a sophomore outfielder at Boston College.