Romance novelists are constantly cooking up ways to make fictional settings zing with chemistry — imbuing a kitchen’s surfaces with all kinds of potential once tensions boil over, or evoking the warmth and smell of a fireplace as a symbol for how one character makes another feel.
That’s why, when it comes to making your own home the setting of an epic romance, we could think of no better contingent to ask for advice.
Of course, while the herein guidance can enhance a connection, it can’t create one that doesn’t otherwise exist. “I could have all the rose petals in the world, but if you weren’t feeling the person or y’all are in a fight or whatever, then the candles and the rose petals make absolutely no sense,” says Tracey Livesay, most recently the author of “The Duchess Effect.”
Fill your home with personal details
If you’re trying to feel out a connection with someone new, romance authors predict it will help to incorporate your interests and personal history into your decor.
Think about it from the perspective of a potential paramour. “When you go into someone’s house for the first time, you’re totally paying attention to all of the little details,” says romance writer Cat Sebastian, most recently the author of “We Could Be So Good.” “And if you’re interested in somebody, you’re going to pay attention even more,” she says. Details like whether they have books — and which books in particular — can point to potential areas of connection … or incompatibility.
For authors, describing a character’s home is a great opportunity to show, rather than tell, the reader about them. “When I’m thinking about spaces for characters, they’re often … these interesting extensions of the character development I’m trying to do,” especially their bedrooms, says romance author Nikki Payne, whose latest book, “Sex, Lies and Sensibility,” came out this month. “Does the main character keep clothes under the bed to seem more neat, or are there still high school trophies from their high school days?” Those details illuminate elements of a character more effectively than just stating an adjective.
In real life, if your companion shows an interest in the baubles on your shelf or other details you’ve included in your space, you can likely take that as a positive development: “There’s something really romantic about somebody noticing the effort you went to,” says Tessa Bailey, most recently the author of “Fangirl Down.”
Think beyond just how the space looks
To make a space feel more romantic, our experts advise paying attention to the other senses, too. Romance novels often set the mood by describing how a character or place smells. Livesay applies the technique in her own life by keeping her favorite lotions and other scented products in the bedroom, which waft into the air when she uses them.