I didn't listen to Rush Limbaugh much. But his voice both reverberated around me and penetrated me like the radio waves he rode on, having influenced the people who've influenced me.
One such friend eagerly admits Limbaugh — and the boss who shared Limbaugh's show on the office radio — changed her from a quintessential northeastern liberal to a rock-ribbed conservative. Though she admits it took time for Limbaugh's insights to seep through his tart verbiage.
"My liberal ears would get so offended," my friend Pat VanHooser, a former Kansas City resident, told me. But then the logic took hold. And she looked around the small business she worked in. "I saw the ridiculous regulation, the crushing HR rules and the heavy-handed interference of the federal government on good people like us who were trying to provide a service and make a profit. Part of this was providing good jobs and giving back to our community. And every day Rush would point out exactly what I was seeing for myself.
"I became a conservative."
The talk titan from Cape Girardeau, Mo., with deep Kansas City ties had that effect on many.
At the very least, what he did was remind a lot of us that we're not alone — and, in fact, that we're not deplorable after all — in our love for this country and in our growing concern for its future. Particularly in the face of a strangely fashionable disregard for our borders, our rule of law, our founding principles and our overwhelmingly benevolent nature.
And while not a devoted "dittohead" Limbaugh fan myself — his acerbic style just wasn't my favorite — many of the people I love and who love me were. They are hurting, after his passing from lung cancer at 70. And with few stalwarts now there to give voice to their beliefs, at least on the national scene, they're struggling to find oxygen in a vacuum of conservative leadership.
With the crash and burn of the Donald Trump presidency at the still-smoldering Capitol riot, it seems an especially bad time for Limbaugh's voice of common-sense conservatism to be silenced forever.