Thanksgiving is too, too much. Too much food. Too much family (at least until the tryptophan kicks in and that obnoxious in-law dozes off).
So the last thing we need is too much pressure over choosing the wine, especially when there are so many wrong choices.
Among them are America's most popular varietals: chardonnay, cabernet sauvignon and merlot. These are ill-suited for the array of dishes at the T-Day table, starting with the main course (even if it's turducken).
"Chardonnay is way too dry for turkey, and cabernet is too bold," said Andy Kass, owner of Sutler's wine store in Stillwater.
Trotting out these varietals is a double disservice -- to the guests and to the wine world in general.
These wines "are destructive to potential new wine lovers," said my friend Perry Rankin, owner of the 34 North wine store in Healdsburg, Calif. "They'll say 'I guess I just don't like wine' and not touch the stuff until next year, when they'll repeat the cycle."
With an eclectic array of both food and palates at the table, striving for the perfect match is folly. An herbal sauvignon blanc might go with the sage-infused stuffing, but so might a peppery syrah/shiraz. A spicy sweet gewürztraminer or late-harvest riesling should sing with the pumpkin pie, but so would a sweet sherry or tawny Port.
But if there's a wine that marries well with oyster dressing and sweet potatoes and cranberry chutney, well, I'd love to hear about it.