Chris and Libby Rupp had been telling their daughter Isabella that big girls don't cry, but it wasn't until Frankie Valli sang it that she took the message seriously.
The 7-year-old's fondness for the vocals of a certain Jersey boy is going to get tested up close at the Frankie Valli & the Four Seasons concert for the PACER Center on May 2. The Rock and Roll Hall of Famers, an inspiration for the Broadway musical "Jersey Boys," are headlining the 27th annual fundraiser for the organization, which helps families with kids who have disabilities.
"She has autism -- multiple disabilities, but that's one," said Isabella's mom. "She is very motivated by music, but something about Frankie Valli has really struck her. She gets very excited. She laughs a lot."
"The very first time Isabella heard 'Big Girls Don't Cry,' she had this look on her face like They DON'T?" Rupp said with a laugh. "It was a very moving time for her. As a 7-year-old, we're trying to tell her about being a big girl and she's like, Wait a minute."
But when Isabella heard Valli say it, the expression on her face became, Whoa, I better listen to my parents! "Exactly," said Rupp, when we discussed how kids tend to believe some messages when reinforced by someone other than a parent. "It was hilarious. Her eyeballs were huge."
Isabella's eyeballs may get even more huge when she sees the group perform. And her eyes may not return to their usual size until days later because Paula Goldberg, executive director of PACER, said: "We're going to make sure she meets him, too."
Rupp is not promising that to her daughter in advance. "But she's going to the concert. We are hoping it doesn't set a trend where she thinks just because she likes someone she will get to see them. That could be a bad thing," Rupp said with a laugh.
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