Vernetta Benton guided her own five children with a stern hand while simultaneously beaming with pride at their accomplishments — and she extended her mothering ways to every child in the neighborhood, making each one feel special.
"She expected excellence and greatness from [her children]," said Desireé Benton, her granddaughter. "One stern look and you knew to get it together."
Benton, 87, died Sept. 7 in her sleep at her Bloomington home.
She was born Vernetta Mae Lewis in Omaha in 1936 to parents Vivian Mae Lewis and Charles Jones, though she was mostly raised by Roy Miller, her mother's husband. She had two younger siblings, Anna and Wayne Miller.
She graduated with honors from Omaha Technical High School in 1953, a strong student and cheerleader who was athletically gifted.
She went on to work as a nursing assistant at Omaha Veterans Administration Medical Center and gave birth to two sons, Daryll and Terry Lewis.
Terry Lewis would become a well-known songwriter and music producer, partnering with his friend and colleague, James "Jimmy Jam" Harris to win five Grammys.
In 1959, she married Jesse Benton and had three more children: Jerome, Bonita and Brenda. After an economic downturn hit Omaha, she moved to St. Paul in 1969 to continue working in nursing at the Minneapolis Veterans Affairs Medical Center.