After Valborg Swedberg died on Sept. 23, at age 96, her daughter Cindi Konitzer had a favorite photo of her mother enlarged.
It shows Swedberg in a dress that she almost certainly made herself, holding a coffee pot and smiling. "To me, that's the epitome of who she was," Konitzer said. "She loved people, and here she is serving people and wanting to make them happy."
Rarely did her "social butterfly" mother visit anybody without something she'd made in hand, Konitzer said. "Even the car dealership where she bought her vehicles, she always gave them cakes. For doctors, cakes. It was just everyone."
The Swedish immigrant, who was known as Val, developed a reputation for kindness and generosity throughout her long and varied career. As a young adult, Swedberg worked as a streetcar conductor in Stockholm; in the United States, she ran two elementary school kitchens practically by herself and then, after launching a sewing business out of her basement, went on to open fabric shops in Chaska and Excelsior. In her 70s, Swedberg went from fashion back to food, with a part-time job passing out samples at Byerlys in Chanhassen. She finally retired at 90.
"She was very ambitious," Swedberg's other daughter, Sue Wendt, recalled. "There were times I'd talk to her at 8 o'clock in the morning and she'd already made loaves of bread and washed the kitchen floor. She had a lot of energy."
A friend commenting on Swedberg's online obituary echoed that sentiment: "She was such a vital, alive person that I guess I thought she would go on forever."
Swedberg was born in Sundsvall, Sweden, where, as a young child, she rowed a boat across a river by herself to get to school. She met her husband, Einar, at a dance. (They would cross-country ski to meet each other for dates.)
The couple came to America in 1948 and eventually settled in Rockford, Ill. After their daughters were born, Swedberg dressed them in handmade clothes. She frequently sewed five matching dresses in varying sizes: for herself, her daughters, and their two baby dolls.