Tom Jackson and some friends gathered for a birthday celebration at Burch restaurant, but singing "Happy Birthday" wasn't on the menu.
"The food was awesome, one of the best steaks I've ever had," said Jackson, 41, of St. Paul, but "the people next to us were pretty much screaming at each other. And, then, so were we."
Jackson said he won't return to the popular Minneapolis restaurant, except by himself. "It felt," he said "like eating at a concert."
Restaurants aim to generate "buzz," what Russell Klein, chef/owner of St. Paul's Meritage, calls "lightning in a bottle." Just the right combination of music, conversation and kitchen clatter can create an alluring, vibrant atmosphere.
But for a growing number of diners, especially those middle-aged and older, noisy restaurants are a buzzkill.
A nationwide Zagat survey found noise the second most common complaint behind lousy service. Foodie websites such as Open Table and Yelp include noise ratings in their reviews, and the New York critic for the online site, Eater, Robert Sietsema, brings a decibel meter to all restaurants.
Not being able to carry on a conversation is the most obvious result of high-volume restaurants. But the noise levels might also be disturbing diners' other senses — including taste — and, like a rock concert, might have a lingering effect on hearing.
Some restaurants are taking measures to reduce the din.